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In general, females tend to read body language better than males, and they tend to give you all sorts of signals. It is almost like they communicate on a different level than some guys can understand. There are several indicators that will tell you that a woman is most likely ready to be kissed.

It’s best to only try to kiss a girl if she’s ready, as it will save a lot of potential embarrassment. Failure to wait until its right for both of you could prevent you from ever getting a second chance, let alone another date. When you try to kiss a girl often depends on several factors, the main one being, where you want to go with the relationship.

There are plenty of guys who are great with ladies who like the stability of having a girlfriend, they tend to want to make sure that the girl is girlfriend material, so they will wait through 1 date, and possibly even a second if they feel they need to, to show respect and display that they are boyfriend type and aren’t out to take advantage of them. If this is you, forget even trying to kiss a girl on the first date, make sure she actually seems interested and says things like “this was fun, I had a good time, we should do this again”, and make sure she sees the qualities in you that you see in yourself. In addition, make sure she has the qualities you want. Then you can look for the signs, and if they’re there, go for it.

The other situation is when you just want to get physical with a girl and dont necessarily want her to be your girlfriend. If this is the case, you can kiss on the first or 2nd date, but never beyond that. If all you want is a casual relationship, you are probably better off going for the kiss on the 1st or 2nd date when shes not ready, and failing then waiting around hoping for something to happen. If you cannot do this because you are too interested in the girl, you should not be trying to have a casual relationship with her.

If this is you, try touching a woman’s hair. If she’s comfortable enough to let you do that, she’s probably willing to kiss you. That doesn’t mean that the instant you touch her hair you need to kiss her, just keep it in mind for later, when the moment seems right. When you’re ready, play with her hair again. If she seems okay with it after awhile, smell her hair and tell her it smells wonderfully intoxicating. Then as you lean back, gently rub your cheek against hers, back away, look into her eyes, brush her hair out of her eyes and go for it. That is how to kiss her when she’s ready.

You can learn more about Erik Von Markovik at the Mind of Mystery | Mystery Method blog.